A practical wisdom tool
The WISER Relationship Filter
Healthy relationships are not perfect. These questions help us notice their direction, character, safety, fruit, and willingness to repair harm.
W
Where
Where is this relationship leading me?
My own words:
I
Integrity
Is there honesty, trust, and consistency?
My own words:
S
Safety
Can I say no and set boundaries without fear or pressure?
My own words:
E
Encouragement
Does this encourage faith, wisdom, and healthy growth?
My own words:
R
Repair
When harm happens, is there honest repentance and patient rebuilding?
My own words:
My Next Step
The WISER question I need most:
One wise action or conversation this week:
One trusted person I can ask for help: